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Help! We're Burned Out!

November 1, 2024

 

In today’s fast-paced world, burnout is a reality faced by leaders everywhere, from high-level executives to grassroots community organizers. Many are stretched thin, keeping up with intense demands and relentless deadlines. According to recent studies, burnout has reached alarming levels, with Gallup reporting that nearly 76% of employees experience burnout at least sometimes, and 28% say they feel burned out “very often” or “always”mptoms like exhaustion, cynicism, and decreased motivation, burnout doesn’t just affect work—it touches every corner of life. The big question is: How do we overcome it and regain our spark?

For those struggling with burnout, one of the most powerful first steps is to realign with what I call “The Realest You.” This isn’t just self-reflection; it’s about reconnecting with the core of who you are, both as an individual and within an organization. It’s easy to drift away from your authentic self in the daily grind, but coming back to it can be a game-changer.

1. Realign with The Realest You

Reconnect with Your True Identity
Take a moment to ask yourself, Who am I? and What do I truly stand for? For many of us, burnout can sneak up when we lose sight of these guiding principles. Often, when life gets hectic, we let our schedules and external pressures define us. But getting reacquainted with our values and purpose can renew our energy and clarity.

For leaders especially, the need to realign with your authentic self is critical. In the hustle, have you started compromising on values or principles that once defined you? These might be small compromises at first, like skipping a workout to squeeze in another meeting or taking on projects that don’t fully align with your vision. Over time, though, these actions can create inner conflict, and when that conflict becomes constant, burnout is often the result.

Ask Questions That Realign You and Your Team
This realignment isn’t only personal; it’s also essential for organizations. Leaders should ask themselves and their teams: Are we staying true to the mission we set out to achieve? Have the demands of deadlines and bottom lines pulled us off course from what matters most? For example, if your organization initially set out to make a positive social impact, but now everyone is focused solely on financial targets, there’s likely a disconnect creating tension within the team. That tension translates into stress and fatigue.

When we’re in alignment—when our personal and organizational missions match our daily actions—there’s a renewed sense of purpose. And with that purpose comes resilience. You’re no longer grinding through tasks that feel like they’re draining the life out of you. Instead, you’re engaged in meaningful work that fuels you, reawakening that original passion and purpose that might have faded over time.

Reconnecting with “The Realest You” is a foundational step in overcoming burnout. It builds a strong sense of self and a clear mission, making it easier to withstand the challenges of daily pressures and find joy in the journey once again.

2. Celebrate Victory When It Comes

Listen, I’m not the “participation trophy” guy. I’m not here to tell you to celebrate every little win with a parade, but acknowledging real victories—milestones that push your purpose and mission forward—is crucial. Why? Because failure is a natural part of success. We’ve all stumbled, made mistakes, and taken missteps. It’s in those experiences that we learn and grow. But there’s another side to that coin. Celebrating the wins, even small ones, gives you a clear reminder that you are making progress.

It’s important to recognize victories not just to pat ourselves on the back but to keep perspective. This practice isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. A simple fist pump, a few moments to acknowledge how far you’ve come, or even a quick reflection of gratitude—these actions remind you that things are moving forward. In fact, studies have shown that regularly practicing gratitude can have powerful effects on mental well-being, enhancing resilience and reducing stress. Research by Dr. Robert Emmons, a psychologist known for his work on gratitude, indicates that expressing gratitude can improve both emotional well-being and long-term motivation by reinforcing the positive aspects of life and workude isn't a magic fix, but acknowledging your wins does something profound. It breaks up the monotony and gives you momentum. You’re no longer trapped in a loop of relentless grind—you’re making headway, and that sense of progress is the fuel to keep moving.

3. Keep Going!

This might seem like an obvious point, but it’s crucial. If you quit, there’s no discussion to be had about overcoming burnout or moving forward. Leaders across every industry face the temptation to throw in the towel daily. Sometimes, it’s been a rough few months; sometimes, it’s been a rough decade. But perseverance—the grit to keep pushing forward even when it’s tough—is the difference between true success and unfinished potential.

Perseverance isn’t about denying struggles or ignoring the wear and tear. It’s about acknowledging where you’ve fallen short, healing where you’re broken, and then pressing on. And that’s the heart of what it takes to succeed in any area, personally or professionally. As leaders, it’s not just our wins that define us but how we handle setbacks, disappointments, and challenges. True resilience is born in the choice to keep going when the path is hard.

The Time is Now


Don’t just read this article—use it as a catalyst to elevate your organization. Take the first step toward healing, growth, and transformation by booking Maurice F. Martin to speak to your leaders, educators, or team about overcoming burnout. Watch Maurice’s 2024 speaking reel to see his impact in action, and let’s partner together to help your organization thrive.