Every few weeks, someone inevitably asks, “So, what made you want to become a motivational speaker?” It’s a fair question. But for a long time, I wasn’t sure how to answer it.
Here’s the truth: some people actively choose their path, while others feel like their path was chosen for them. I fall into the latter group. I didn’t grow up dreaming about standing on stages and delivering speeches. But when I look back, it’s clear the seeds were planted long ago.
A Spark Lit on Stage
The first time I stood on stage to inspire an audience was 15 years ago with my band. Back then, the inspiration was woven into the music, a part of the overall presentation. But I quickly recognized the incredible power of those moments—when you’re standing in front of impressionable individuals who are desperately searching for a spark to propel them forward.
In those early days, I didn’t think of myself as a “motivational speaker.” I was just someone who saw the need for encouragement and stepped into the moment. But over time, I realized this wasn’t just something I could do—it was something I was called to do.
Why Transformation Matters More Than Motivation
If I’m being honest, I don’t just see myself as a motivational speaker; I see myself as a transformational speaker. Why? Because I know motivation alone isn’t enough. Motivation might get you started, but it’s the tools, habits, and mindset shifts you develop along the way that lead to real transformation.
Think about it: How many times have you felt motivated in the moment, only for that feeling to fade a few days—or even hours—later? My mission is to go beyond the surface and help people create lasting change. I want to equip individuals and leaders with the strategies they need to transform their lives, even when they feel unmotivated.
From Rock Bottom to Renewed Purpose
I didn’t fully embrace this calling until my life completely fell apart. I’ve shared before how I battled anxiety, depression, and even moments of hopelessness so deep that I contemplated ending my life. I was desperate for any flicker of hope—something, anything, that could remind me why I was still here.
I was high every day, drunk most nights, and had lost the desire to leave. I have often told the story that in 2016, I experienced my personal rock bottom. I was completely burned out despite making the most money I have ever made and having many elements in my life firmly in my favor. I was in need of a life saving spark.
I have had many people ask me why I'm willing to publicly discuss such a dark part of my life, but to me, that difficulty is directly tied to everything that I do today. I suffered in silence, but I loudly share the victory with everyone I can share with.
My life did not change by accident and it most certainly was not easy. I cried a lot of tears as I delt with past pain, healed from trauma, and realigned my life vision and mission. I fully connected with God, began to link up with a tribe, started attending counseling, and was truly willing to revisit every area of my life. My life transformation required more than just motivation. It required courage, and so will yours.
A Language Born in the Fire
Here’s what I’ve learned: when you come through life’s greatest trials and tests, you’re not just left with scars—you’re left with a powerful, internal language. It’s a language born out of the fire, one that resonates with others who are walking through their own storms.
I often tell leaders and high achievers, “You can’t lead others until you first lead yourself.” That’s not just a motivational platitude; it’s a hard-earned truth I live by. When I speak, I don’t just aim to inspire—I aim to help others transform their mindset, rebuild their confidence, and reignite their purpose.
The character is forged through the fire, and oftentimes, your true values and principles are strengthened in the test. We often do not find our deepest anointing until we are crushed by the difficulty of life and then rise from the ashes. The fire is necessary.
Why I Believe in Speaking
Being a motivational speaker isn’t just about delivering powerful words—it’s about creating lasting impact. Whether I’m speaking at corporate events, leading workshops, or coaching individuals one-on-one, my goal is always the same: to help people break through their barriers and step into their full potential.
I’ve learned that every audience is different, but the core needs remain the same. People want to feel seen, heard, and valued. They want to know they’re not alone in their struggles and that transformation is possible.
For me, speaking is a way to connect with people on a deep level and remind them that their story isn’t over. No matter how dark the moment, there’s always a way forward.
Walking in Purpose
At the end of the day, I know this is a God-given purpose. I didn’t choose this path—it chose me. And every time I step onto a stage or sit across from someone who needs guidance, I’m reminded that this calling is bigger than me. It’s about serving others and making my life a reflection of hope, purpose, and transformation.
So, why did I become a motivational speaker? Because I believe in the power of transformation. I believe in the ability to overcome, to rise, and to lead with purpose. And I believe that if sharing my story can help even one person find their spark, then it’s all worth it.